See Yourself In Others
I have always been interested in people. Beyond the achievements and successes, I want to learn about their journey. What has their path been like? What experiences have shaped them? What people have influenced their thinking? And whatever chapter I walk into on their life, what has gotten them to that point?
While I’ve taken an interest in people’s journey most of my life, I’ve not always been objective about the person. I use to bring judgment and biases with me. As I’ve gotten older and matured, I no longer do that. I can observe a person and learn from them whether they are at the top of their game or trying to find their stride. I became a better person when I could see the good in people no matter their past or how things might be at the moment for them. I send love regardless.
My life has been filled with both successes and challenges. All the people I’ve met along the way have contributed to my experiences in some way. Some people have been kind and unconditionally loving. Others haven’t. This doesn’t stop me from loving them all the same. The fact that I can do so without reservation demonstrates how much I’ve grown and continue to grow. When you can be loving and kind-hearted to everyone without exception, it demonstrates how committed you are to being happy and peaceful.
So many times, we pass judgment on people or project our own failings unto others without acknowledging our own shortcomings, poor choices or failures. The people who allow us to see their struggle are often the most courageous amongst us. Instead of judging them or turning away, we should be inspired by them and extend a hand to help them through their difficulty. It’s so easy to judge others and ignore our own shortcomings. It takes a truly big person to work on themselves while supporting others in doing the same. We all lose our way sometimes. And just because we wander for a while, it doesn’t mean we are lost. Be empathetic, loving and kind to everyone.
Stronger Mindset!
Keith
