Keith JonesJuly 8, 2016

I remember a time in my life when I hated waiting for anything. I disliked being in stuck traffic. Every time I went to the doctor’s office, it seemed like forever before they would see me. And a layover at the airport or a delayed flight would send me through the roof. I use to think nothing good came from having to wait for anything. Then I saw the light. Waiting is a gift.

I haven’t been much of an instant gratification kind of guy. I can delay receiving a reward if what it takes to get it is worthwhile. And even if there’s no end in sight, like exercising to be healthy, I can stay the course as long as I believe in the benefits along the way. For example, working out and eating healthy is a life-long commitment if I want to feel and look my best. And as anyone who exercises regularly will tell you, the results do not happen overnight. You have to be consistent, diligent and patient while you work and wait for your body and fitness to improve.

I’ve learned to be a master of waiting. I use the time effectively. And so can you. Here’s how:

1. Carry a ToDo List with you at all times.This way when you have to wait, you can work on the items on your list before opting for checking out social media, reading magazines, etc…

2. Embrace situations that require you to wait. Even more, look forward to them.I have client meetings almost daily. Occasionally people are a little late to arrive. No problem! I can use the time to write a blog, design a class and learn something new that improves my skills and helps me grow. Traffic is perfect for listening to a personal development podcast.

3. See the benefits that come with waiting.Greater patience is one of the biggest gifts I’ve gotten. I rarely get upset when I have to wait. My mood remains positive and I am pleasant to be around. This is a win-win for everyone; especially the people I have to interact with. For example, when my flight is delayed, it’s not the gate agent’s fault. They appreciate passengers who understand this and are patient. When the gym employee arrives late to open up, my friends and I still greet them with a smile whether they apologize or not. And that’s because we use the time waiting to connect with each other so it is a win anyway.

The next time you’re waiting, don’t just wait or become upset about it. Use the time wisely. Make it work for you by being productive and doing something that moves you, your goals and your life forward. Waiting is a gift. Appreciate every minute of it.

Stronger Mindset!

Keith