I must’ve been a small kid watching a superhero movie the first time I ever heard the phrase, “for the greater good”. Back then I thought it meant sacrificing yourself so others might have a chance to have a better experience. It often meant the hero dying or losing in some way to make this happen.

As I grew up, I continued to be moved by people who put others first; especially if they did it with no expectation of something in return. They made me want to be like them. Their contributions changed lives and motivated me to do the same.

I thought real-life heroes who supported their families and communities with kindness and loving hearts were perfect. I felt I had to be too if I was going to live up to their example. Well, I haven’t been perfect. I’ve stumbled so many times. I’ve let people down. In years past, the way that I saw my moral collapses filled me with great disappointment, guilt and shame. This didn’t happen the last time I had a moment of being an imperfect human being. I didn’t get down on myself. Instead, I asked myself, “Were the people who inspire you perfect? Did they ever fail? If they so, was that the end of their story or did they grow from the situation and continue doing good?” I researched the people I looked up to and was thrilled to learn they were all flawed but didn’t let that stop them. They continued their efforts to make a difference in the world.

Today I stay focused on my life purpose to help people be their personal best so they can be happy and help others do the same. This has meant seeing the good in everyone and taking nothing personal. I extend compassion and grace to others and myself if promises are broken. And I work to silence both negative self-talk and ego so I keep an open heart to everyone. This is not easy but it’s necessary for the impact I want to make.

My heroes have figured it out. They’re not perfect and don’t pretend to be. They simply do what’s necessary for the greater good to win. And along they way, they win too. I am committed to following in their footsteps. I hope you’ll join me. It’s so much fun making a difference.